thinking.

Any NEW person I meet tends to ask similar questions.

Ya know the the "get to know you" questions.

and...

they almost always ask

without failure

if I have children

AND...

I always answer

yes.

he lived for 6 months.

in shock...

most people respond in shock.

never really knowing how to respond

what to say.

Some people are gracious.

Some people ignore the answer and ask about something else.

But.

I will never stop answering that question without including Kaden.

No matter how akward a conversation can get.

HE IS MY SON.

I will not let his death define me.

I am his mother.

He is my son.

That is that.

It is eternal.

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I have been pondering A LOT today.

It all started with a beautiful video.

and a blog post.

You must watch it.

You must read it.

They will inspire you.

as they did me...

I want to be better.

How do I spend all my time?

it...will and is going to change.

Thank you for inspiring me.